Mar. 18th, 2006
I Guess I'm not so weird after all
Mar. 18th, 2006 01:19 pmI learned a new word today "taphophile" from ![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
ckr .
I don't take rubbings or pictures,I am not that dedicated. I just like to experience the peace and history I get when I go out to look at the older foot and headstones.I feel sometimes we spend so much time trying to record an event or pin down a feeling we can totally miss the experience.
I have to say my most cherished memories are so much better than the photos or videos I have of them.
Now I am not saying I don't take pictures, just that I'd rather not miss out on the feelings and impressions I have at those moments in time, photos just don't do justice most of the time.
As we were traveling across country a few years ago we came to a very old cemetery and I made them all picnic there with me there ( my version of tailgate). Then we just wandered through for a little while.It was amazing, out in the middle of back of beyond doesn't even come close to describing it, no gate or fence, not even a sign.
I asked them all to be quiet for just a moment and just see it, feel the history of the people gone on before.They were all quiet and stood there breathing in the wonderful clean country air and the historical significance, all in all a wonderful family teaching moment.
Then my oldest son then about 13 piped up and said "That's great Mom where's the Frisbee!"
Okay maybe I am just weird after all.
ckr .I don't take rubbings or pictures,I am not that dedicated. I just like to experience the peace and history I get when I go out to look at the older foot and headstones.I feel sometimes we spend so much time trying to record an event or pin down a feeling we can totally miss the experience.
I have to say my most cherished memories are so much better than the photos or videos I have of them.
Now I am not saying I don't take pictures, just that I'd rather not miss out on the feelings and impressions I have at those moments in time, photos just don't do justice most of the time.
As we were traveling across country a few years ago we came to a very old cemetery and I made them all picnic there with me there ( my version of tailgate). Then we just wandered through for a little while.It was amazing, out in the middle of back of beyond doesn't even come close to describing it, no gate or fence, not even a sign.
I asked them all to be quiet for just a moment and just see it, feel the history of the people gone on before.They were all quiet and stood there breathing in the wonderful clean country air and the historical significance, all in all a wonderful family teaching moment.
Then my oldest son then about 13 piped up and said "That's great Mom where's the Frisbee!"
Okay maybe I am just weird after all.
I Guess I'm not so weird after all
Mar. 18th, 2006 01:19 pmI learned a new word today "taphophile" from ckr .
I don't take rubbings or pictures,I am not that dedicated. I just like to experience the peace and history I get when I go out to look at the older foot and headstones.I feel sometimes we spend so much time trying to record an event or pin down a feeling we can totally miss the experience.
I have to say my most cherished memories are so much better than the photos or videos I have of them.
Now I am not saying I don't take pictures, just that I'd rather not miss out on the feelings and impressions I have at those moments in time, photos just don't do justice most of the time.
As we were traveling across country a few years ago we came to a very old cemetery and I made them all picnic there with me there ( my version of tailgate). Then we just wandered through for a little while.It was amazing, out in the middle of back of beyond doesn't even come close to describing it, no gate or fence, not even a sign.
I asked them all to be quiet for just a moment and just see it, feel the history of the people gone on before.They were all quiet and stood there breathing in the wonderful clean country air and the historical significance, all in all a wonderful family teaching moment.
Then my oldest son then about 13 piped up and said "That's great Mom where's the Frisbee!"
Okay maybe I am just weird after all.
ckr .I don't take rubbings or pictures,I am not that dedicated. I just like to experience the peace and history I get when I go out to look at the older foot and headstones.I feel sometimes we spend so much time trying to record an event or pin down a feeling we can totally miss the experience.
I have to say my most cherished memories are so much better than the photos or videos I have of them.
Now I am not saying I don't take pictures, just that I'd rather not miss out on the feelings and impressions I have at those moments in time, photos just don't do justice most of the time.
As we were traveling across country a few years ago we came to a very old cemetery and I made them all picnic there with me there ( my version of tailgate). Then we just wandered through for a little while.It was amazing, out in the middle of back of beyond doesn't even come close to describing it, no gate or fence, not even a sign.
I asked them all to be quiet for just a moment and just see it, feel the history of the people gone on before.They were all quiet and stood there breathing in the wonderful clean country air and the historical significance, all in all a wonderful family teaching moment.
Then my oldest son then about 13 piped up and said "That's great Mom where's the Frisbee!"
Okay maybe I am just weird after all.
Random acts of Kindness
Mar. 18th, 2006 03:37 pmI saw that on a bumper sticker and got to thinking ( a sometimes dangerous occupation).
Maybe instead of Doing Random Acts of Kindness we should just Be kind ?
When we are kind to everyone , it would then become a part of who we really are not just merely something we do.
I mean a person can do a kind deed without actually being kind.It then becomes something done for the self and not the other.
How many do kind deeds for the pat on the back or their own selfish reasons.Doesn't really take anything away from the deed its' self or the recipient, but what does it really do for the doer of said deed? Does it make them a better person? Maybe, then maybe not.
I would think a lot more people would benefit from kindness if it were a way of life not a once in a while Random Act.
Because everyone knows, acting is not being.
Okay we all know what we mean to say and what is sometimes perceived are two separate things.
What do you think? Am I way off base here. Is there something I am not understanding about this saying?
*I mean if the whole thing is supposed to make me want me to pay their toll wouldn't it be better to put it on the front of the car since I'd have to go first?*
Maybe instead of Doing Random Acts of Kindness we should just Be kind ?
When we are kind to everyone , it would then become a part of who we really are not just merely something we do.
I mean a person can do a kind deed without actually being kind.It then becomes something done for the self and not the other.
How many do kind deeds for the pat on the back or their own selfish reasons.Doesn't really take anything away from the deed its' self or the recipient, but what does it really do for the doer of said deed? Does it make them a better person? Maybe, then maybe not.
I would think a lot more people would benefit from kindness if it were a way of life not a once in a while Random Act.
Because everyone knows, acting is not being.
Okay we all know what we mean to say and what is sometimes perceived are two separate things.
What do you think? Am I way off base here. Is there something I am not understanding about this saying?
*I mean if the whole thing is supposed to make me want me to pay their toll wouldn't it be better to put it on the front of the car since I'd have to go first?*
Random acts of Kindness
Mar. 18th, 2006 03:37 pmI saw that on a bumper sticker and got to thinking ( a sometimes dangerous occupation).
Maybe instead of Doing Random Acts of Kindness we should just Be kind ?
When we are kind to everyone , it would then become a part of who we really are not just merely something we do.
I mean a person can do a kind deed without actually being kind.It then becomes something done for the self and not the other.
How many do kind deeds for the pat on the back or their own selfish reasons.Doesn't really take anything away from the deed its' self or the recipient, but what does it really do for the doer of said deed? Does it make them a better person? Maybe, then maybe not.
I would think a lot more people would benefit from kindness if it were a way of life not a once in a while Random Act.
Because everyone knows, acting is not being.
Okay we all know what we mean to say and what is sometimes perceived are two separate things.
What do you think? Am I way off base here. Is there something I am not understanding about this saying?
*I mean if the whole thing is supposed to make me want me to pay their toll wouldn't it be better to put it on the front of the car since I'd have to go first?*
Maybe instead of Doing Random Acts of Kindness we should just Be kind ?
When we are kind to everyone , it would then become a part of who we really are not just merely something we do.
I mean a person can do a kind deed without actually being kind.It then becomes something done for the self and not the other.
How many do kind deeds for the pat on the back or their own selfish reasons.Doesn't really take anything away from the deed its' self or the recipient, but what does it really do for the doer of said deed? Does it make them a better person? Maybe, then maybe not.
I would think a lot more people would benefit from kindness if it were a way of life not a once in a while Random Act.
Because everyone knows, acting is not being.
Okay we all know what we mean to say and what is sometimes perceived are two separate things.
What do you think? Am I way off base here. Is there something I am not understanding about this saying?
*I mean if the whole thing is supposed to make me want me to pay their toll wouldn't it be better to put it on the front of the car since I'd have to go first?*
Okay Blaired alright? from![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
pattrose
Mar. 18th, 2006 09:00 pm| You Are Emerald Green |
 Deep and mysterious, it often seems like no one truly gets you. Inside, you are very emotional and moody - though you don't let it show. People usually have a strong reaction to you... profound love or deep hate. But you can even get those who hate you to come around. There's something naturally harmonious about you. |
Deep hate - Oh God ! How can I be "naturally harmonious " and still inspire Deep Hate
*I am so misunderstood *sigh*
Okay Blaired alright? frompattrose
Mar. 18th, 2006 09:00 pm| You Are Emerald Green |
 Deep and mysterious, it often seems like no one truly gets you. Inside, you are very emotional and moody - though you don't let it show. People usually have a strong reaction to you... profound love or deep hate. But you can even get those who hate you to come around. There's something naturally harmonious about you. |
Deep hate - Oh God ! How can I be "naturally harmonious " and still inspire Deep Hate
*I am so misunderstood *sigh*